Mental Health matters
So we all know I'm a strong independent woman and all that jazz, but I know full well that there are days when I am not that great. Work sometimes leads me to huge days of lethargy where I dont want to even consider getting out of bed but you know bills and all that. Also, when these days do come over me, I have been known to take a day off on leave. The pandemic and everything with it made me realise that I need me days too, days where I'm not mum or a colleague. Days when I'm Ffion. Days when sometimes it just means lying in bed all day. Also, burn out is a thing and I wont live forever if that happens.
This week its Mental Health week in the UK and I just wanted to write this to let you ALL know that if you ever need a friend, or a random person to listen then my DM's are open.
I cant imagine being in so much despair at life that you don't want to be here anymore, but I have unfortunately lost a friend to the hidden disease. She was the bright star of a friend group at one point and was always smiling but looking back now it seems that this was just painted on. Not only was she a mother but a grandmother too but that didnt stop her ending her life. Her death (its been a year) was a shock and still is today.
If your in the UK, the follwing services and organisations are open to you:
Samaritans
The Samaritans offer emotional support 24 hours a day - in full confidence.
Call 116 123 - it's FREE.
Or email jo@samaritans.org.uk.
For support in a crisis, Text Shout to 85258.
If you’re experiencing a personal crisis, are unable to cope and need support.
Shout can help with urgent issues such as:
- Suicidal thoughts
- Abuse or assault
- Self-harm
- Bullying
- Relationship challenges
Mind offer an information line to answer questions about:
- types of mental health problem
- where to get help
- drug and alternative treatments
- advocacy.
Call the Mind infoline on 0300 123 3393 (UK landline calls are charged at local rates, and charges from mobile phones will vary considerably). Or email info@mind.org.uk.
Sending hugs; I've also lost a friend to suicide. It's truly awful to think she was in such a dark place and couldn't find it in her to reach out.
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