I've erupted

 

As you all know I've had a bad week what with husbands being more like ostriches etc etc..
So you'll all be happy to know that this morning I erupted. We were tidying last night and every time I'd try to broach the subject of our situation, Neb shrugged me off.

This morning though it all came to head when I vented my anger and went off on one- a bit like the volcano above. It all came blurting out and I told him that if I didn't get these things off my chest then our marriage wouldn't last. I even slapped him across the face (oops!). 

We made up before I went to work with him apologizing lots for everything and promising that things would get better, and so far things are getting there I think. 

We had Bel's birthday party today and he thanked me for organising a great cake (he did try baking one but disaster struck), for the party bags (filled with sweets, party toys and glo sticks) and for making Bel's party enjoyable.

He has kindly gone out to get me some chips now and some cider and when he gets back we will watch the rugby together and then do some more tidying ready for his mother's visit tomorrow.

I hope that this is the start of better days and that my posts will be happier and mad (again!)

Bye for now

BNMx

Comments

  1. Jen26 February 2010 at 22:24

    Good for you:) Sometimes ostriches need a fright to get them running! Jen.

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  2. Anonymous26 February 2010 at 22:50

    Hi! Just found your blog off of Seven Years On! You make me laugh... a lot! I have to make like a volcano sometimes, too. Gonna keep checking back. :)

    And, hoping you don't think I'm a crazed stalker, you have really gorgeous hair.

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  3. Gigi26 February 2010 at 22:58

    Well, that's what happens you keep it in and let it fester - eventually it will come out. As though I have any room to talk - I keep it in a lot of times. But truly? They can't know how you are feeling if you don't tell them.

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  4. SLM27 February 2010 at 00:44

    As Jen said good for you, hope it's done him some good and has the desired effect and that it lasts. Glad Bel's party went well, we are having Isaac's 'funny unofficial' bday party tmw, just finished cake. Hope u enjoyed chips and cider and mil visit isn't too stressful x

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  5. Anonymous27 February 2010 at 07:21

    I bet you feel alot better now. You shouldn't carry all the burden by yourself. I am glad Bel's party went well. I bet she had a great time. You are a fab Mum. xxxWixxx

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  6. Very Bored in Catalunya27 February 2010 at 07:45

    Good for you, sometimes it's the only way to get our feelings across, hope the situation gets a lot better for you. xx

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  7. Anonymous27 February 2010 at 08:09

    We need to erupt every now and again otherwise we'd burst and that would be really messy!

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  8. Ffi27 February 2010 at 08:16

    Thank you for all your comments - it did make me feel better and I know I shouldn't keep things in but its what I do.
    Alisha - my hair normally looks like I've been dragged through a hedge but stalk away
    Wi - defo on for supper next week!
    Superlittlemen - hope Isaac enjoys the party and cake!

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  9. Gigi28 February 2010 at 02:05

    Hey my friend, I've got something for you at my place.

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  10. Irish Mammy6 March 2010 at 09:38

    Let it out! Good for you! x

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